Grafting high on thin stocks requires a bit of extra care and staking, in case the rootstock gets snapped. If you want to graft high to get an instant bushy tree, try a scion peice with several buds, and dont let one become the main shoot. If you are working on larger stocks, one reason to graft or bud high, is to better size match the available scion material to the stock. This will leave less of a flat stump to heal over at the graft union.