If listed correctly, the female parent always comes first, then the male.
Dancy makes small fruits under some conditions, and up to humongous fruits under other conditions. I'd expect California-grown ones to be small. But in Florida or other hot-humid-nights climates, and on a vigorous rootstock, it can be quite large indeed. Still, I had never heard that normal 'Dancy' is tetraploid; I wonder if this is one that they've purposely doubled with colchicine or by other means???