Generally potted plants are harder to graft to because they are slow providers of plant juices. But the bigger the pots of course, the bigger should be the supply and buds would readily take. Bark grafting works well even with smaller sized pots because you are forced to take out whole branches which reduces the demand, making the supply side plentiful, and the graft much likely to take. If T-budding on those plants in smaller container, chances are they would not even take. And if they do, forcing them to sprout would be a challenge at times.
The secret to cleft grafting avocadoes even on mature trees is to do them on the green soft wood near the tip. Seedlings have those.
I have bark-grafted avocadoes last weekend on my friends older tree and did it on mature wood as an experiment. Let's see what happens.