Commercial nurseries use sand for three purposes. 1). Sand helps some with drainage, 2),adds weight (ballast) to the container which helps with tip over, and 3). Sand is very inexpensive, therefore if 20 percent of the potting medium is sand, the nursery's cost is greatly reduced, making their profits higher. You can use sand or not. A 3:1 bark/peat moss medium would be a good medium for container citrus. I would not recommend using fine grade sand, as such sand would fill in much of the medium's porosity, reducing the root zone aeration. - Millet (898-)