Welcome Ginny!
I see that you are also a member of SCV CRFG. So that's double welcome from me!
I can deduce that your tree is having a root problem, a bad one. I hope it is not the dreaded Mal Seco disease, where there is no escape.
I too had a similar problem some time ago, and I spread about 10 lbs of corn meal (the cheapest one that you can get hold of ) around the base of the tree, rake it in, and water it. My tree fully recovered. One of the excellent things about corn meal is that it has aspergillus fungus that can kill off many pathogenic microorganisms in the soil. Another is that it contains iron. All those fertilizers you applied were not used much, considering that your tree is not growing, and so it would be in excess. When you incorporate carbohydrate into your soil, microbial population of aspergillus and other friendlier microorganisms will shoot up, consuming the excessive nutrients, immobilizing them, and thus help remove the excess. This is one technique well used in bioremediation to remove excess nitrogen in the soil. The nutrients would later be release, albeit slowly, which is a lot better for your plants.
Anyway, I am just guessing your problem as I haven't inspected the tree, but the corn meal treatment, the only thing you will lose is the cost of 10 lbs of corn meal. You may need to apply more, depending on the size of your tree.
Joe