Well a bit of follow up on this. The trees are going through another flowering cycle. So I have tried to be more regular with my watering schedule. And I think I may have erred on the other side.
The flower bloom this time has been good, and while it is a bit soon to say, it appears that a better percentage of the flowers are starting to form fruit. However the bad thing which happened is some pretty drastic leaf loss. Maybe 50% or more of the leaves have dropped.
It is not dis-similar to what one might expect in the fall when first moving plants indoors and not taking care to match root temps and water needs of the above round parts. But I thought I had that under control. This fall went well with very minor if any leaf loss, and the trees were making it through the winter at a S facing window without any symptoms like this until I increased the watering schedule.
I had thought that I was letting the soil dry enough between watering, but I now suspect not. I was checking the soil moisture (index finger method) a inch or two down, and watering when dry. However I tried lifting the pots recently and noticed they were still quite heavy even when I thought the soil dry. Poking down further I found very moist soil a bit further down. My conclusion is I have been over watering, and that has caused the leaf drop. Does that make sense?
IIRC Millet had said elsewhere that one should wait until the pots feel light in weight before watering. I am curious if you still think this is a good technique (and perhaps wonder how dry/light you let them get? Really light/bone dry?)
Anyhow I am wondering what the best way to correct this over watering mistake (if that is what happened) is, in light of not wanting to ruin the fruit set which is hopefully taking place. Perhaps a slow move back to dryer soil conditions?
Suggestions?